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How to Support Your Child’s Dance Journey (Even If You’re Not a Dancer)

July 30, 20253 min read

How to Support Your Child’s Dance Journey (Even If You’re Not a Dancer)

Watching your child light up during dance class or take their first bow on stage is a magical experience. But if you’ve never danced yourself, you might wonder: “How can I best support them?”

The good news? You don’t need to know the difference between a plié and a pirouette to be a fantastic dance parent. At Steps 2 Stardom, we believe every family plays a vital role in nurturing a child’s confidence, creativity, and commitment to their performing arts journey.

Here’s how you can be your child’s biggest supporter—no dance experience required!


1. Celebrate Effort, Not Just Achievement

It’s natural to want your child to do well, but the real magic of dance lies in the process. Celebrate the small wins: learning a new step, attending regularly, trying something new.

Avoid focusing only on awards or roles—acknowledge their courage, persistence, and progress.

Try saying: “I loved how hard you worked on that routine!” or “I saw how focused you were in class today!”


2. Be Present and Engaged

Simply being present—watching class (when allowed), attending performances, and talking about dance at home—lets your child know you care.

Ask open-ended questions like:

  • What was your favourite part of class?

  • What are you excited to learn next?

  • How did it feel to perform that dance?

Showing interest makes your child feel seen and valued.


3. Respect Their Journey

Every dancer grows at their own pace. Some children jump into class with confidence; others need time to adjust. Some love ballet; others prefer drama or hip hop.

Let your child explore what they enjoy and grow into their passion in their own time. Trust the teachers to guide their development with care and professionalism.


4. Stay Organised and Prepared

Help your dancer feel confident and ready by staying on top of the practical stuff:

  • Make sure they have the correct uniform and shoes

  • Pack a water bottle and snack if needed

  • Arrive on time (early for performances!)

  • Keep track of class times, concerts, and special events

These small acts of preparation help your child feel calm, focused, and supported.


5. Encourage Healthy Habits

Dancing bodies need care. Make sure your child:

  • Stretches before and after class

  • Gets enough rest

  • Eats nutritious meals

  • Takes breaks when needed

Talk to them about listening to their body and speaking up if they’re tired or need help.


6. Handle Nerves with Encouragement

It’s normal for kids to feel nervous before a performance or when trying something new. Reassure them that nerves mean they care—and that mistakes are part of learning.

Remind them that they’re brave just for showing up and trying their best. Celebrate effort over perfection every time.


7. Let the Teachers Teach

Your child’s teachers at Steps 2 Stardom are trained professionals who understand dance education and child development. Trust their process—even if you don’t always understand the why behind a correction or class structure.

Avoid comparing your child to others. Every dancer has their own path, and your child’s growth is what matters most.


8. Be a Positive Voice in the Wings

Your attitude influences your child’s mindset. Keep feedback constructive, stay upbeat after performances, and focus on the joy of dance rather than competition or pressure.

Children often mirror our energy—so be the calm, confident cheerleader they need.


9. Enjoy the Experience Together

The best part of your child’s dance journey is sharing it with them. Whether it’s watching concert videos, helping with makeup, or laughing over forgotten steps—it’s all part of the memory-making.

Dance becomes a beautiful shared language between you and your child, one filled with pride, encouragement, and connection.


Dance is a Family Affair

At Steps 2 Stardom, we see ourselves as an extension of your family. Our goal is to empower every child—and support every parent—with warmth, understanding, and guidance.

No matter your background, you belong here. So grab a seat in the audience, cheer loudly, and know that your support is the greatest gift you can give.

Annette Hill is the co-founder and co-director of Steps 2 Stardom Performing Arts Academy in Narellan, NSW. With over 35 years of experience in dance education, Annette is passionate about using the performing arts to empower children and build confidence, creativity, and connection. She is a proud advocate for early childhood movement and believes that every child deserves a joyful, nurturing space to shine.

Annette

Annette Hill is the co-founder and co-director of Steps 2 Stardom Performing Arts Academy in Narellan, NSW. With over 35 years of experience in dance education, Annette is passionate about using the performing arts to empower children and build confidence, creativity, and connection. She is a proud advocate for early childhood movement and believes that every child deserves a joyful, nurturing space to shine.

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